Date: November 2, 2023
Bible Verse:
“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs…” (Ephesians 4:29, NIV)
Message (Longer with a Fun Twist):
I was typing an email response to a church member who had, shall we say, a very strong opinion about the color of the new sanctuary carpet. I was tired, slightly annoyed, and typed a few lines that might have been more sarcastic than necessary.
In my mind, I thought, “I’ll just delete this afterward.” But before I could hit backspace, kiddo peeked over my shoulder. She let out a little gasp. “Dad, you’re not really going to send that, are you?”
Thank God for a child’s honesty. Sometimes we all need a dose of truth from an unexpected source. At that moment, I realized how easy it is for negative words to slip out. Especially when we’re not speaking them aloud but typing behind a screen.
I deleted the sarcastic lines, took a breath, and wrote a kinder, more patient response. The funny thing is, once I sent that gracious email, I felt so much better. The grumpiness I was holding onto vanished.
Communication is tricky, especially when we’re tired or dealing with tough people. But Ephesians 4:29 reminds us that our words, whether typed or spoken, are meant to build others up. Does that mean we let everyone walk all over us? Of course not. But even in correction or disagreement, we can choose words that reflect grace.
Later that week, the church member thanked me for hearing them out, and we eventually settled on a carpet color that (mostly) everyone liked. I can’t help but laugh now, thinking how close I came to sending that ill-timed sarcasm. Thank God for second chances. And for kids who aren’t afraid to speak up!
Bible Promise:
God can guide our words when we ask Him.
“If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault…” (James 1:5, NIV)
Prayer:
Heavenly Father, thank You for reminding me how powerful words can be. Help me to pause before I speak or type, and choose words that build others up. May my communication honor You, even in conflict. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.
Prayer
Heavenly Father, thank You for reminding me how powerful words can be. Help me to pause before I speak or type, and choose words that build others up. May my communication honor You, even in conflict. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.