It Wasn’t Me, It Was All God

This is a bonus post in the Twisted Scriptures series, where we look at familiar Bible verses and Christian phrases in their proper context. The original sixteen-part series began May 3, 2026.

I have caught myself saying, “It wasn’t me. It was all God.”

Usually, I meant it sincerely. I wanted to give God the glory and make sure no one thought I was taking credit for something He helped me do. I have heard other people say the same thing after singing well, preaching a message, writing something meaningful, finishing a difficult project, or using a gift God placed in their lives.

I understand what we mean when we say it.

We know the gift came from God. We know the opportunity came from God. We know we could not do anything of lasting value without His grace. We do not want appreciation to become pride, so we quickly push the compliment away and say, “It was not me.”

But is that the best way to describe what happened?

First Corinthians 15:10 gives us a better balance. Paul wrote, “By the grace of God I am what I am.” He gave God full credit for the calling, transformation, and grace upon his life. However, in the same verse, he also said, “I labored more abundantly than they all.”

Paul did not deny his effort.

He did not say he had done nothing. He worked, traveled, preached, suffered, studied, prayed, and remained faithful through tremendous hardship. Then he added, “Yet not I, but the grace of God which was with me.”

The Greek word translated “grace” is charis, pronounced KHAH-rees, and written χάρις. It can mean grace, favor, gift, or gracious enablement. In Paul’s life, grace did not replace effort. Grace empowered it.

That distinction matters.

God called Paul, but Paul still had to answer. God gave him grace, but Paul still had to labor. God opened doors, but Paul still had to walk through them. His work did not compete with the glory of God. His faithful work demonstrated what the grace of God could accomplish through a surrendered person.

The same is true for us.

If you sing well, God gave you the voice, but you may also have spent years learning how to use it. If you speak well, God may have anointed you, but you still studied, prayed, prepared, and learned from your mistakes. If you completed something difficult, God gave strength and opportunity, but you still showed up and did the work.

Acknowledging that is not pride.

Pride says, “I did this by myself, and I am better than everyone else.”

False humility says, “I had nothing to do with this at all.”

Biblical humility says, “God gave me grace, and I faithfully used what He gave me.”

False humility does not necessarily mean someone is lying or being insincere. Most of the time, the person truly wants to honor God. The problem is that denying every part of our contribution can give an incomplete picture of how God works.

God often chooses to work through human obedience, discipline, preparation, personality, creativity, and effort.

When someone offers a sincere compliment, we do not have to lower our head, reject it, or act as though nothing meaningful happened. We can simply say, “Thank you. I am grateful God helped me,” or, “Thank you. I worked hard on that, and I am thankful the Lord used it.”

Gratitude is not arrogance.

There is a difference between being boastful and being excited that something went well. It is okay to be thankful that you preached clearly, sang well, finished the project, helped someone, or handled a difficult moment with wisdom. We can celebrate growth without believing we created the gift ourselves.

Jesus told a parable about servants who were entrusted with talents. The faithful servants did not bury what they received in an attempt to appear humble. They used it, developed it, and produced something with it. Their faithfulness was recognized by the master.

God is glorified when His gifts are used well.

Second Corinthians 3:5 says that our sufficiency is from God. That does not mean we are useless or uninvolved. It means the source of our ability and effectiveness is not independent of Him.

Galatians 2:20 says, “It is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me.” Paul was not saying that his personality, choices, and responsibility had disappeared. He was describing a life surrendered to Christ and directed by faith.

Giving God glory does not require us to pretend we had no role in what happened.

A healthy view recognizes both grace and responsibility. God calls, anoints, equips, opens doors, and gives strength. We practice, prepare, obey, persevere, and use what He placed in our hands.

It is not all us.

But it is also not God working instead of us.

It is God working in us and through us as we respond faithfully to His grace.

Bible Promise

Philippians 2:13

“For it is God who works in you both to will and to do for His good pleasure.”

God is at work within you, giving both the desire and the ability to carry out what He has called you to do.


Reflection Questions

  1. Have you ever rejected a sincere compliment because you thought accepting it would take glory away from God?
  2. What gift, ability, or opportunity has God given you that you need to develop and use with greater gratitude and confidence?

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for every gift, ability, opportunity, and measure of grace You have placed in my life. Keep me from pride and from believing I can accomplish anything of lasting value apart from You. At the same time, protect me from false humility that denies the work, growth, and obedience You have produced in me. Help me receive encouragement with gratitude, use my gifts faithfully, and give You glory without pretending that my choices and effort do not matter. Teach me to work hard, remain humble, and celebrate what Your grace accomplishes through a surrendered life.

I give You all honor, all the glory, and all of the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

The Permanence of Love (1 Corinthians 13:8-10)

In verses 8-10, Paul transitions from describing the qualities of love to emphasizing its permanence. While spiritual gifts like prophecy, tongues, and knowledge are important for the church, they are temporary. Love, however, is eternal. It reflects the very nature of God and endures forever.

When I think about the permanence of love, I’m reminded of moments when everything else seemed to fall apart, relationships, plans, even my own sense of purpose. In those times, God’s unchanging love was my anchor. It’s a powerful reminder that while human achievements and gifts fade, love remains.

  1. Love Never Fails (1 Corinthians 13:8a)

The phrase “love never fails” means that love doesn’t come to an end or collapse under pressure. It’s not fleeting or conditional; it endures through every circumstance. I’ve seen how God’s love has carried me through my own failures and heartbreaks, showing me that true love perseveres, even when things seem impossible.

  1. Spiritual Gifts Are Temporary (1 Corinthians 13:8b-9)

Paul highlights that gifts like prophecy, tongues, and knowledge are temporary tools given to the church for this age. They serve a purpose, but they are not eternal.

Prophecies will cease: When God’s full revelation is complete, prophecy will no longer be necessary.

Tongues will be stilled: This gift, meant to edify the church, will no longer be needed in the perfection of eternity.

Knowledge will pass away: Our limited understanding will be replaced by the fullness of knowing God completely.

While I believe in the value of spiritual gifts (as someone in ministry), I’m reminded that their purpose is to point us toward God’s eternal love.

  1. When Completeness Comes (1 Corinthians 13:10)

Paul refers to a future time when perfection, or completeness, will come. This points to the return of Christ and the eternal state where we will see God face to face (1 Corinthians 13:12). In that day, the partial and incomplete will give way to the fullness of God’s glory.

This reminds me to keep an eternal perspective. It’s easy to get caught up in the temporary, achievements, struggles, even spiritual gifts, but God calls us to focus on what truly lasts: His love.


Reflection Questions

  1. How can you shift your focus from temporary achievements to eternal values?
  2. What does it mean for you to live out a love that “never fails” in your daily life?

Prayer

Lord, thank You for a love that never fails and endures for eternity. Teach me to live with an eternal perspective, valuing love above all else. Help me to reflect Your unfailing love in my relationships and to focus on what truly matters. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

Conclusion: Discovering and Using Your Spiritual Gifts

As we’ve explored the gifts listed in Romans 12, we’ve seen how each one, whether exhortation, hospitality, generosity, mercy, leadership, or serving, reflects God’s grace and love. These gifts equip us to glorify Him and serve others, building up the body of Christ and advancing His kingdom.

One of the most powerful steps you can take is to discover the gifts God has placed in you. Understanding your spiritual gifts helps you recognize how the Holy Spirit wants to work through you. There are several free spiritual gift inventory tests available online that can guide you in identifying your gifts. These tools are not definitive but can be a great starting point for prayer and reflection.

If you’d like more information about spiritual gifts or how to use them in your life and ministry, I’d be happy to help. Feel free to message me with any questions or thoughts.


Reflection Questions

  1. What gifts has this series helped you recognize in your life?
  2. How can you begin to use your gifts to serve others and glorify God?

Prayer

Lord, thank You for the unique gifts You’ve given to each of us. Teach me to discover and use my gifts to serve others and build up Your church. Show me how to walk in step with Your Spirit, living out the calling You’ve placed on my life. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

The Gift of Leadership

The gift of leadership is a Spirit-given ability to guide and inspire others toward God’s purposes. This gift is not about control or power but about serving with diligence and humility to help others grow in their faith and fulfill their calling.

As a leader in ministry, I’ve learned that leadership requires more than vision, it demands a reliance on the Holy Spirit for wisdom, patience, and perseverance. True leadership is about serving others and pointing them to Christ.

Guiding with Purpose: Leaders provide direction and inspire others to pursue God’s mission (Proverbs 29:18).

Serving with Humility: True leadership prioritizes the well-being and growth of others (Mark 10:42-45).

Equipping for Ministry: Leaders help others discover and use their gifts for God’s glory (Ephesians 4:12).

Calling on the Holy Spirit for guidance and strength allows leaders to serve effectively and faithfully.


Reflection Questions

  1. How have godly leaders impacted your life and faith journey?
  2. In what ways can you support and pray for the leaders in your church or community?

Prayer

Lord, thank You for the gift of leadership that inspires and equips others to follow You. Teach me to lead with humility and diligence, relying on Your Spirit for guidance. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

The Gift of Mercy

The gift of mercy is the Spirit-empowered ability to show compassion and kindness to those who are hurting. This gift reflects God’s tender heart and His desire to bring comfort and healing to those in need.

I’ve been moved by people with the gift of mercy who extend kindness and understanding in ways that transform lives. Their compassion reminds me of Jesus’ ministry, where He constantly sought out the broken and offered them hope.

Compassion for the Hurting: Mercy seeks to alleviate suffering and bring comfort to those in need (Matthew 25:35-36).

Reflecting God’s Love: This gift demonstrates God’s care and concern for the vulnerable and marginalized (Psalm 103:13).

Bringing Healing and Hope: Mercy brings restoration to those who feel overlooked or forgotten (2 Corinthians 1:3-4).

Calling on the Holy Spirit to cultivate mercy allows us to be vessels of His love and healing in a broken world.


Reflection Questions

  1. How has someone’s mercy impacted your life or faith journey?
  2. In what ways can you extend compassion to those who are hurting around you?

Prayer

Lord, thank You for the gift of mercy that reflects Your compassion and love. Teach me to show kindness and understanding to those in need, bringing Your healing and hope. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

The Gift of Generosity

The gift of generosity is a Spirit-given ability to give joyfully and sacrificially, meeting the needs of others and advancing God’s kingdom. This gift is not about the size of the gift but the heart behind it, a heart that trusts in God’s provision and desires to bless others.

I’ve been inspired by people with the gift of generosity who give not out of abundance but out of faith. Their willingness to share reminds me of God’s faithfulness and His call to live with open hands and hearts.

Meeting Needs: Generosity allows us to provide for the physical, emotional, and spiritual needs of others (Acts 2:45).

Advancing God’s Kingdom: Giving generously supports the work of the church and spreads the gospel (2 Corinthians 9:6-7).

A Reflection of God’s Heart: Generosity mirrors God’s own giving nature, as He gave His Son for us (John 3:16).

Calling on the Holy Spirit to cultivate generosity helps us trust in God’s provision and share His blessings freely.


Reflection Questions

  1. How has someone’s generosity impacted your life or faith?
  2. In what ways can you practice generosity, trusting God to provide for your needs?

Prayer

Lord, thank You for the gift of generosity that blesses and provides for others. Teach me to give with joy and trust, reflecting Your love and faithfulness. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

The Gift of Hospitality

The gift of hospitality is a Spirit-empowered ability to create a welcoming and warm environment for others. This gift reflects God’s heart by providing a space where people feel loved, valued, and cared for.

I’ve experienced the beauty of hospitality through those who have opened their homes, shared meals, and created safe spaces for fellowship and encouragement. Their kindness reminded me of God’s generous love and His call to serve others.

Welcoming Strangers: Hospitality reaches beyond close friends and family, extending God’s love to all (Hebrews 13:2).

Creating Community: This gift fosters meaningful connections and strengthens the body of Christ (Acts 2:46).

Reflecting God’s Heart: By offering hospitality, we mirror God’s gracious welcome to us (Romans 15:7).

Calling on the Holy Spirit to cultivate hospitality allows us to serve others selflessly and create spaces where God’s presence is felt.


Reflection Questions

  1. How has someone’s hospitality impacted your life or faith journey?
  2. In what ways can you open your heart and home to reflect God’s love?

Prayer

Lord, thank You for the gift of hospitality that creates spaces of love and connection. Teach me to serve others selflessly and to reflect Your heart in all I do. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

The Gift of Exhortation

The gift of exhortation is the Spirit-given ability to encourage and strengthen others in their walk with God. Whether through spoken words, written messages, or acts of kindness, exhorters inspire others to stay faithful and grow in their faith.

I’ve been blessed by people with this gift in my life… those who, in my darkest moments, spoke life and truth over me. Their encouragement reminded me that God was still at work, even when I couldn’t see it.

Encouraging Others in Faith: Exhorters help others persevere in their spiritual journey (1 Thessalonians 5:11).

Strengthening the Weak: This gift often brings hope and strength to those who feel weary or discouraged (Isaiah 40:31).

Calling Believers to Action: Exhorters challenge others to live out their faith boldly and purposefully (Hebrews 10:24).

Exhortation is a gift that builds up the body of Christ, reminding us of God’s promises and encouraging us to live in His strength.


Reflection Questions

  1. How has someone with the gift of exhortation impacted your faith journey?
  2. In what ways can you practice encouraging and strengthening others around you?

Prayer

Lord, thank You for the gift of exhortation that strengthens and inspires Your people. Teach me to encourage others with Your truth and to be a source of hope in their lives. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

The Gift of Interpretation of Tongues

The gift of interpretation of tongues allows a believer to understand and convey the meaning of a message given in tongues. This gift is essential for ensuring that messages spoken in tongues during a corporate setting are meaningful and edifying to the body of Christ.

I’ve been in services where someone gave a message in tongues, and another person interpreted it with clarity and power. The interpretation brought encouragement and unity to the congregation, highlighting the Spirit’s work among us.

Revealing God’s Message: The interpretation ensures that the church understands and benefits from the message given in tongues (1 Corinthians 14:13).

Promoting Order in Worship: This gift maintains order in corporate worship, ensuring that spiritual gifts are exercised appropriately (1 Corinthians 14:27-28).

Strengthening the Body: Interpretation allows the church to be edified, encouraged, and aligned with God’s will.

Calling on the Holy Spirit for the gift of interpretation reminds us of the importance of clarity and understanding in worship.


Reflection Questions

  1. Have you ever witnessed the gift of interpretation in action? How did it impact the congregation?
  2. How can you pray for the Spirit’s guidance in using this gift to edify others?

Prayer

Lord, thank You for the gift of interpretation that brings clarity and understanding to Your messages. Teach me to use this gift with humility and to honor You in all things. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

The Gift of Speaking in Tongues

The gift of tongues is a Spirit-empowered ability to speak in a language unknown to the speaker, often for prayer, worship, or a message to the church. This gift demonstrates God’s presence and serves as a sign to both believers and unbelievers.

As part of the Assemblies of God, I’ve seen how the gift of tongues brings edification and intimacy in prayer. Whether in a private prayer time or a corporate worship setting, this gift is a powerful reminder of the Holy Spirit’s active presence in our lives.

For Personal Edification: Speaking in tongues during prayer allows believers to connect deeply with God, bypassing human understanding (1 Corinthians 14:2-4).

For Corporate Edification: When accompanied by interpretation, tongues can bring a message of encouragement to the church (1 Corinthians 14:27).

A Sign to Unbelievers: This gift serves as a testimony to God’s power and draws attention to His work (Acts 2:6-8).

Calling on the Holy Spirit for the gift of tongues reminds us to embrace His work in our lives and to worship Him with our whole being.


Reflection Questions

  1. How has the gift of tongues deepened your relationship with God?
  2. How can you seek to use this gift in alignment with God’s purpose and order?

Prayer

Lord, thank You for the gift of tongues that draws me closer to You in prayer and worship. Teach me to use this gift for Your glory and to edify others. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.