The Great Camping Trip Blunder

Scripture:

“The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps.” (Proverbs 16:9, ESV)

Every now and then, I get a wild idea to do something adventurous with kiddo. Last spring, that adventure was camping. I pictured us sitting by the fire, roasting marshmallows, and gazing at the stars while bonding over deep, meaningful conversations. What actually happened was… a little different.

We arrived at the campsite late because I forgot to account for traffic. It was already dark, so I set up the tent by flashlight, only to realize I’d forgotten the stakes. The tent collapsed twice before I managed to rig it with sticks and duct tape.

Then came the food. I had this grand plan to grill burgers over the fire, but I couldn’t get the fire to stay lit. We ended up eating cold sandwiches, with kiddo laughing hysterically every time I tried to spark the flames. “This is going on my highlight reel,” she joked.

Finally, we settled into the tent. Only to be woken up at 2 a.m. by a curious raccoon digging through our cooler. kiddo dubbed him “Bandit” and decided he was the real MVP of the trip.

At first, I felt like the whole thing was a disaster. But as we drove home the next day, kiddo turned to me and said, “That was the best trip ever, Dad.” Her words reminded me that life rarely goes as planned, but the memories we make in the messes often mean the most.

Camping taught me that God’s plans are often better than our own, even when they look different than we imagined. We might plan for perfection, but it’s in the unexpected moments that His grace, humor, and love shine brightest.

Bible Promise:

God works all things for good… even our blunders.

“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” (Romans 8:28, NIV)

Prayer:

Heavenly Father, thank You for turning even my missteps into moments of joy and connection. Help me to embrace the unexpected and trust that Your plans are always good. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

Prayer

The Bread of Life

The title “The Bread of Life” reminds us that Jesus is the ultimate source of spiritual nourishment and satisfaction. Just as bread sustains physical life, Jesus sustains and fills our souls.

During a season when I felt spiritually empty, I turned to Jesus as the Bread of Life. Instead of looking to temporary fixes to satisfy my heart, I leaned into His Word, His presence, and His promises. Only then did I realize that He alone could truly fill me.

Jesus Satisfies Our Hunger: The Bread of Life fills the deep longing in our hearts that nothing else can satisfy.

Jesus Sustains Our Souls: Just as bread nourishes our bodies, Jesus strengthens and sustains us spiritually.

Jesus Offers Eternal Life: The Bread of Life gives us not just daily provision but the promise of eternal fulfillment.

Calling on the Bread of Life reminds us to turn to Jesus for the nourishment and satisfaction our souls crave.

Reflection Questions

What are you turning to for satisfaction that only Jesus can provide?
How can you rely on the Bread of Life to sustain you daily?

Prayer

Lord, thank You for being the Bread of Life who satisfies and sustains me. Teach me to find my fulfillment in You and to share Your provision with others. Help Kneel Ministries guide people to experience the fullness of life in You. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

When What You Want Doesn’t Happen

I prayed for reconciliation. I prayed for healing. I believed that God could restore my marriage, and I held onto that hope with everything I had. But it didn’t happen. Instead, we ended up divorced. A reality I never thought I’d face.

For a long time, I wrestled with the question: Why, God? I couldn’t understand why He allowed this to happen when I was praying for the exact opposite. It felt like He wasn’t listening or didn’t care.

But as I’ve walked through this journey, God has reminded me that His ways are higher than mine. He sees the bigger picture, even when I can’t. While the outcome wasn’t what I wanted, He has been faithful in teaching me to trust Him with the pieces of my broken dreams.

Watching my children navigate this season has been painful, especially when I’ve seen them experience moments of disappointment and heartache. But it’s also reminded me of the importance of showing them what it means to trust God, even when life doesn’t go the way we planned.

Reflection Questions

How can you trust God when His plans don’t align with your desires?
What lessons has He taught you through unmet expectations?

Prayer

Lord, thank You for reminding me that Your ways are higher than mine. Teach me to trust You when life doesn’t go the way I hoped. Help me to find peace in Your plan and to reflect Your faithfulness to my children and those around me. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

The Dangers of Secular Music

I’ve seen it happen more than once. Someone who loves Christian music and fills their life with praise and worship slowly starts letting their old music creep back in. It’s subtle at first, just a song here and there for nostalgia’s sake. But over time, that music becomes the norm. Their attitude begins to shift, their clothing choices change, and eventually, their heart is no longer fully aligned with God.

I get it. I love 90s and 2000s music. Back then, I knew every rap lyric, pop hit, and yes, even some country songs (though I listened to those in secret growing up in Oklahoma and Arkansas!). Music has a way of taking us back to moments in life, stirring up memories and emotions. But here’s what I’ve learned: those feelings can shape the choices we make.

During my separation and divorce, I realized how much music affected me. A breakup song could keep me stuck in anger and hurt, while a live performance of an old favorite could bring me down emotionally. I had to make a choice: stay in the emotional rollercoaster or fill my heart and mind with truth.

That’s when I fully embraced Christian music again. I began searching for artists who sounded like the secular ones I loved, but with a message that lifted my spirit instead of pulling me down. The difference was undeniable. Songs that glorify God hit differently, they don’t just entertain; they encourage, heal, and remind you of your identity in Christ.

Christian music has become a lifeline for me. It helps me fight the lies of the enemy and stay focused on God’s promises. There’s nothing wrong with liking a particular sound or style, but we have to be intentional about the messages we’re letting into our lives. Music is powerful, it can draw us closer to God or pull us away.

So, if you’re struggling to let go of old songs, I challenge you to explore the incredible Christian artists out there. There’s something for every taste, and I promise you’ll find music that not only sounds good but also nourishes your soul.

Prayer

Heavenly Father, thank You for the gift of music and how it speaks to my heart. Help me to choose songs that glorify You and draw me closer to Your truth. Protect me from the subtle pull of music that can lead me away from You, and remind me to fill my life with worship that honors You. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

Moses: When God Calls the Inadequate

Moses is one of the most remarkable leaders in the Bible, but when God first called him, he didn’t feel up to the task. He had a past he wasn’t proud of, he doubted his abilities, and he didn’t think he was the right person for the job.

I’ve felt that way too. After my divorce, I questioned whether I could still serve in ministry. I wondered if God could use someone who had failed so publicly. Every time I thought about stepping back into leadership, a little voice whispered, “Who do you think you are?”

Moses asked the same question: “Who am I?” But God’s response changed everything: “I will be with you.” (Exodus 3:12) God wasn’t focused on Moses’ qualifications. He was focused on His own power and presence.

That truth gave me the courage to step forward again. God doesn’t call the qualified; He qualifies the called. Like Moses, we might feel inadequate, but our confidence doesn’t come from who we are, it comes from who God is.

If you’re feeling unworthy of God’s calling, remember this: He’s not asking you to do it alone. He’s with you, equipping you for the task He’s set before you.

Prayer

Heavenly Father, thank You for calling me, even when I feel inadequate. Remind me that my strength comes from You, not from myself. Help me to trust Your presence and step forward in faith. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

Light of the World

When Jesus declared Himself the “Light of the World,” He offered hope to a world trapped in darkness. His light illuminates our path, dispels fear, and brings life where there was once death.

I’ll never forget a time when I felt like I was walking in a fog of confusion and doubt. It was during those days that I turned to Jesus, asking Him to guide me. His light didn’t just illuminate my path. It brought clarity, peace, and renewed purpose.

The Light That Guides: Jesus shines a light on our path, helping us navigate life with wisdom and truth (Psalm 119:105).

The Light That Dispels Darkness: His presence drives out fear, sin, and despair, replacing them with hope and joy.

The Light That Gives Life: The Light of the World offers eternal life to all who follow Him, calling us out of darkness into His marvelous light (1 Peter 2:9).

Calling on the Light of the World reminds us that no matter how dark life may seem, Jesus is our constant source of hope and guidance.

Reflection Questions

How has Jesus been a light in the dark seasons of your life?
How can you reflect His light to those around you?

Prayer

Lord, thank You for being the Light of the World who shines in my life. Teach me to follow Your light and to share it with others, bringing hope and truth to a dark world. Help Kneel Ministries guide others to walk in Your light. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

Overcoming Fear

Fear has a way of creeping in when you least expect it. After my divorce, I found myself battling fears I’d never faced before. Fear of failure, fear of rejection, fear of what the future might hold. Even as a pastor, I wasn’t immune to the “what ifs” that seemed to follow me everywhere.

One particular night, I was lying awake, my mind racing with worry about our daughter. What kind of example was I setting for her? Was I doing enough as her dad? I felt overwhelmed, and the weight of fear threatened to crush me.

That’s when God reminded me of 2 Timothy 1:7. Fear isn’t from Him. He gives us power, love, and a sound mind, not anxiety and doubt. I began to pray, asking God to replace my fear with His peace. Slowly, I felt the tension ease.

Fear will come knocking at your door, but you don’t have to let it in. God has given us the tools to fight back, His Word, prayer, and His promises. When fear rises, remind yourself of who God is. He is your protector, your provider, and your peace.

If you’re facing fear today, know this: it doesn’t define you. God’s power is greater than any fear you’ll ever face.

Prayer

Heavenly Father, thank You for reminding me that fear has no place in my life because You are with me. Replace my fear with faith and my anxiety with peace. Help me to trust You fully, no matter what I face. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

The Good Shepherd

The title “The Good Shepherd” reveals Jesus as the one who cares for, protects, and sacrifices for His people. As a shepherd knows each sheep by name, Jesus knows us personally and leads us with compassion and love.

There have been moments in my life when I felt lost, unsure of the path forward. In those times, I clung to the image of Jesus as the Good Shepherd. He reminded me that I didn’t have to navigate life alone, He was there to guide me, protect me, and bring me back when I strayed.

The Shepherd’s Care: Jesus tenderly cares for His flock, providing for their needs and tending to their wounds (Psalm 23).

The Shepherd’s Protection: As the Good Shepherd, He stands between us and danger, laying down His life to save us from harm.

The Shepherd’s Sacrifice: Jesus’ ultimate act of love was giving His life for His sheep, demonstrating the depth of His commitment to us.

Calling on the Good Shepherd reminds us that we are deeply known, loved, and cared for by Jesus, who leads us faithfully.

Reflection Questions

In what ways has Jesus been your Good Shepherd in your life?
How can you follow His example of care and compassion for others?

Prayer

Lord, thank You for being my Good Shepherd, who knows me by name and cares for me so deeply. Teach me to trust in Your guidance and to share Your love with others. Help Kneel Ministries encourage people to find their hope and security in You. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

Forgiveness: Letting Go of Resentment

Forgiveness. It’s one of the hardest things God asks of us, yet it’s also one of the most freeing. I’ll be honest, this is a lesson I’ve had to learn repeatedly, especially after the hurt I’ve experienced over the past few years.

When my ex-wife left, I felt a deep sense of betrayal. The wounds from our divorce weren’t just emotional; they were spiritual, too. I wrestled with God, asking Him how I was supposed to forgive someone who had shattered the vows we made before Him. It felt impossible.

But then I remembered Jesus’ words: “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” (Luke 23:34). Even as He hung on the cross, betrayed and abandoned, Jesus chose forgiveness. If He could forgive in the face of such pain, how could I hold on to my bitterness?

Forgiveness isn’t about excusing what happened or pretending the hurt doesn’t exist. It’s about releasing the weight of resentment so it doesn’t consume you. I realized that my anger wasn’t hurting my ex-wife, it was hurting me. I was the one carrying the burden, and it was keeping me from experiencing the fullness of God’s peace.

It wasn’t easy, and it didn’t happen overnight. Forgiveness is a process, one that requires prayer and surrender. I had to bring my pain to God daily, asking Him to soften my heart and give me the strength to let go. Over time, He replaced my bitterness with compassion.

Forgiving my ex-wife doesn’t mean I approve of her choices, but it does mean I’m free. I can look at her now without the heaviness of anger or resentment. And more importantly, I can focus on being the father kiddo needs, without the distraction of unresolved hurt.

If you’re struggling to forgive someone, I encourage you to take it to God. It’s okay to admit it’s hard, He already knows. But as you release the pain to Him, He’ll help you heal. Forgiveness doesn’t change the past, but it transforms your future.

Prayer

Heavenly Father, forgiveness is hard, but I know You’ve called me to let go of resentment and bitterness. Help me to forgive as You’ve forgiven me. Soften my heart and give me the strength to release the pain I’m holding on to. Thank You for the freedom that comes from living in Your grace. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

True Love

When I got married, I believed I understood love. I thought it was found in the vows we made and the life we promised to build together. But after my marriage ended, I wrestled with the painful realization that human love is flawed. It can fail, break, and leave scars.

In my season of heartbreak, God began to teach me about His love… a love that isn’t dependent on circumstances or feelings. True love, as God defines it, is sacrificial, selfless, and enduring. It doesn’t demand perfection but chooses to love despite imperfections.

I’ll never forget one night, shortly after the divorce, when our daughter climbed into my lap and hugged me tightly. “I love you, Daddy,” she whispered. It struck me then that her love for me wasn’t based on what I could give her; it was simply because I was her dad. That’s how God loves us, unconditionally and without limits.

True love begins with God. It’s only when we experience His perfect love that we can truly love others. Whether you’re married, single, or somewhere in between, know that God’s love is the foundation of all relationships. It’s patient when others test your limits. It’s kind when you feel like lashing out. And it’s humble enough to forgive when you’ve been wronged.

As I continue to navigate life as a single dad and pastor, I’m learning to reflect God’s love in my relationships. It’s not always easy, but it’s worth it. Because when we love like Jesus, we’re showing the world what true love really is.

Prayer

Heavenly Father, thank You for showing me what true love looks like. Teach me to love like You. With patience, kindness, and humility. Help me to reflect Your love in all my relationships. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.