In my marriage, one of the most significant challenges was communication. I wish I could say I always spoke with grace and patience, but there were times when frustration or pride got the better of me. I’ve replayed certain arguments in my mind, wondering how things might have turned out if I had chosen different words… or simply listened more.
After my divorce, God began to show me the power of words in a deeper way. I started noticing how my tone, even more than my words, impacted our daughter. If I came across as short or distracted, she would withdraw. But when I was intentional, looking her in the eyes and speaking with kindness, I could see her light up.
One night, after a particularly hectic day, I tucked our daughter into bed and asked her how she was feeling. “I’m okay, Daddy,” she said quietly, but I could tell she wasn’t. Instead of rushing to fix things, I simply said, “I’m here if you want to talk.” A few minutes passed, and then the floodgates opened. She shared how she felt caught between two homes and how hard it was to adjust.
That moment taught me an invaluable lesson: sometimes the most important part of communication is simply being present. Whether it’s with our children, our friends, or God, the act of truly listening can bring healing and connection.
Prayer
Heavenly Father, thank You for teaching me the value of communication. Help me to listen more and speak with grace and wisdom. May my words build others up and reflect Your love. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.