Tag: holiness

Sex Before Marriage: Why It Still Matters

Let’s be real. The world doesn’t value purity anymore.

It celebrates sex in every form.

“Try it before you buy it.”

“Test your chemistry.”

“Everyone’s doing it.”

But God hasn’t changed His mind.

Sex before marriage still matters to Him.

Not because He wants to withhold something good, but because He’s protecting something sacred.

When you give someone your body before a covenant is made, you’re giving them something that was meant to be guarded, cherished, and blessed under His covering.

It’s not just physical.

It’s spiritual.

It’s emotional.

It’s deeply bonding.

The pain I’ve seen from people who gave themselves away too soon, it’s heartbreaking. Regret. Shame. Trust issues that linger into marriage. Sometimes even spiritual numbness. I know the statistics. I know the culture. But I also know the freedom that comes when people turn back, repent, and choose purity from this point forward.

This isn’t a post to shame you.

It’s to remind you that your body is not your own.

It was bought with a price.

And your future spouse , if God has one for you , deserves a version of you that values obedience over impulse.

You can start fresh today.

Purity begins not in the bedroom, but in the heart.

Reflection Questions

  1. Have I treated sex casually or reverently in my past?
  2. What cultural beliefs have I let shape my view of sex more than Scripture?
  3. What does repentance look like for me today?
  4. Bible Promise:
  5. “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” (1 John 1:9)

Prayer

Heavenly Father, I want to honor You with my body, my mind, and my heart. I repent for any way I’ve stepped outside Your design. Cleanse me. Make me new. Help me walk in purity from this day forward. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen and Amen.

A Warning Before We Begin

Date: 2020-10-25

Tags: faith, purity, holiness, hope, healing

Before we dive into these topics, it’s important to address the sensitive nature of this series. We’ll be discussing issues like pornography, erotic novels, sensual movies, and related struggles. These are uncomfortable but necessary conversations for anyone seeking to align their lives with God’s design for purity and holiness.

If you’re reading this and these topics are a personal struggle, know that there’s no judgment here. Only an invitation to healing, hope, and freedom through Christ. We are tackling these subjects with grace, biblical truth, and a heart to help others walk in the freedom God desires for us all.

Now, let’s begin this journey with honesty, humility, and a commitment to pursuing God’s best for our lives.

Alcohol and the Call to Be Set Apart

In a culture that normalizes drinking, choosing to abstain can feel countercultural. But as followers of Christ, we’re called to be set apart, living lives that reflect His holiness and purpose.

I’ve had conversations with people who say, “But everyone drinks, it’s just what you do!” And while it’s true that alcohol is deeply ingrained in our culture, that doesn’t mean it’s beneficial. Romans 12:2 reminds us not to conform to the world’s patterns but to let God transform our minds and guide our choices.

When we choose to abstain, or even rethink our relationship with alcohol, we’re making a statement about what truly defines us. It’s not the trends of the world, but the truth of God’s Word. Our decisions should point others to Christ, showing that we find joy, peace, and fulfillment in Him alone.

If you’re feeling the pressure to conform, remember this: Being set apart isn’t a burden. It’s a privilege. God has called you to live differently, and His Spirit will empower you to stand firm in that calling.

Prayer

Heavenly Father, thank You for calling me to live a life that is set apart for Your glory. Help me to resist the pressures of the world and to make choices that reflect Your truth. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

Presumptuous Sin: A Final Call to Walk in Humility and Grace

Presumptuous sin, as we’ve explored, is not just a slip-up but a willful choice to disobey God, assuming His forgiveness will always be there. It’s a dangerous mindset that hardens our hearts and grieves the Holy Spirit. However, God’s grace is greater than our sin, and He calls us to live in humility, repentance, and obedience.

As we conclude this series, let’s reflect on the importance of guarding our hearts and staying connected to God. Presumptuous sin often stems from pride. A belief that we can live on our own terms and still expect God’s blessings. But the Bible reminds us that God resists the proud and gives grace to the humble.

Walking in humility means acknowledging our dependence on Him. It means understanding the cost of His grace and striving to honor Him with our choices. While we may stumble, a heart that is quick to repent and eager to grow in obedience is one that pleases God.

Let us commit to walking in the Spirit, allowing Him to transform our hearts and lead us into a life that reflects His holiness and love. The journey of faith is not about perfection but about a constant surrender to God’s will.

Reflection Questions

  1. How has this series challenged your understanding of sin and grace?
  2. What steps can you take to live a life of humility and obedience to God?

Prayer

Lord, thank You for the truth of Your Word and the grace You extend to me each day. Help me to walk in humility, turning away from pride and presumptuous sin. Teach me to honor Your holiness and to live a life that reflects Your love and obedience to Your will. Fill me with Your Spirit, guide my steps, and help me to share Your grace with others. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

Sex in Movies: Where Do We Draw the Line?

Sexual content in movies is often excused as part of the “storyline” or “character development,” but as Christians, we need to ask if it’s worth the risk to our hearts and minds. God calls us to purity. Not just in actions but in thoughts and desires as well.

When we watch sexual scenes, we open the door to temptation, lust, and comparison. These images can linger in our minds, distorting our views on relationships and intimacy. Even if we think we’re unaffected, seeds are being planted that can harm our walk with God.

As believers, we’re called to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18). This doesn’t mean isolating ourselves from all media, but it does mean being intentional about what we watch. Choosing movies that honor God protects our hearts and helps us live out His calling for purity.

Reflection Questions

  1. How do you discern whether a movie’s content aligns with God’s standard of purity?
  2. What boundaries can you set to protect your heart and mind from sexual immorality?

Prayer

Lord, thank You for calling me to a life of purity. Teach me to honor You with my thoughts, actions, and entertainment choices. Help me to flee from anything that could lead me away from Your truth. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

The Spiritual Impact of Marijuana Use

Some argue that marijuana enhances their spiritual experiences or helps them feel closer to God. However, the Bible calls us to be filled with the Holy Spirit rather than seeking external substances for peace or enlightenment. True spiritual growth comes from abiding in Christ and meditating on His Word. Marijuana’s mind-altering effects can create a false sense of connection, leading individuals away from the true source of life.

Reflection Questions

  1. How can you distinguish between true spiritual growth and artificial experiences?
  2. What steps can you take to rely solely on the Holy Spirit for guidance?

Prayer

Father, help me to seek You with all my heart and trust in Your Spirit for wisdom and peace. May I never substitute temporary highs for the eternal joy found in You. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

Standing Firm Against Marijuana

The growing push to legalize marijuana, both recreationally and medically, has sparked countless debates in our communities. As someone who’s been part of the National Stomp Out Smoking campaign and the fight for the 2006 Clean Indoor Air Act in Arkansas, I’ve seen firsthand how harmful substances can devastate lives.

While advocates tout marijuana’s potential benefits, it’s important to distinguish between its components. CBD, a non-psychoactive compound, has shown promise in treating certain conditions without the mind-altering effects. However, THC, the compound responsible for the “high,” raises significant concerns. It doesn’t heal, it numbs. It masks pain instead of addressing its root cause, offering a temporary escape rather than real solutions.

As Christians, we’re called to honor God with our bodies, treating them as temples of the Holy Spirit. Substances that alter our minds or lead us to escape reality undermine this calling. Our denomination, the Assembly of God, takes a firm stance on this issue, placing marijuana in the same category as alcohol: something to be avoided because it impairs judgment and opens the door to destructive habits.

Standing firm against marijuana isn’t about being out of touch, it’s about valuing life, clarity, and God’s design. Let’s continue to advocate for healthier solutions and trust God to provide wisdom and healing without relying on substances that alter who He’s called us to be.

Prayer

Heavenly Father, thank You for giving us the wisdom to discern what honors You. Help us to make choices that reflect Your design for our lives and to advocate for solutions that bring true healing. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.