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True Love

When I got married, I believed I understood love. I thought it was found in the vows we made and the life we promised to build together. But after my marriage ended, I wrestled with the painful realization that human love is flawed. It can fail, break, and leave scars.

In my season of heartbreak, God began to teach me about His love… a love that isn’t dependent on circumstances or feelings. True love, as God defines it, is sacrificial, selfless, and enduring. It doesn’t demand perfection but chooses to love despite imperfections.

I’ll never forget one night, shortly after the divorce, when our daughter climbed into my lap and hugged me tightly. “I love you, Daddy,” she whispered. It struck me then that her love for me wasn’t based on what I could give her; it was simply because I was her dad. That’s how God loves us, unconditionally and without limits.

True love begins with God. It’s only when we experience His perfect love that we can truly love others. Whether you’re married, single, or somewhere in between, know that God’s love is the foundation of all relationships. It’s patient when others test your limits. It’s kind when you feel like lashing out. And it’s humble enough to forgive when you’ve been wronged.

As I continue to navigate life as a single dad and pastor, I’m learning to reflect God’s love in my relationships. It’s not always easy, but it’s worth it. Because when we love like Jesus, we’re showing the world what true love really is.

Prayer

Heavenly Father, thank You for showing me what true love looks like. Teach me to love like You. With patience, kindness, and humility. Help me to reflect Your love in all my relationships. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

El Kana: The Jealous God

El Kana, “The Jealous God,” might sound surprising at first. In human terms, jealousy often has negative connotations, but when attributed to God, it reflects His deep, covenantal love and desire for our exclusive devotion. El Kana is not jealous out of insecurity but because of His passionate commitment to us.

I’ve seen how distractions can creep into my life, whether it’s work, entertainment, or even good things that take precedence over my relationship with God. During one such season, I was reminded of this name. God’s jealousy is not about control but about wanting the best for us: a life fully devoted to Him.

God Desires Our Hearts: El Kana calls us to wholehearted devotion, rejecting idols and distractions.

God’s Love Is Relentless: His jealousy reflects His commitment to us and His unwillingness to share us with anything that diminishes our relationship with Him.

God Protects the Covenant: El Kana defends His covenant with His people, ensuring that nothing breaks the bond He has established.

Calling on El Kana reminds us to examine our hearts and remove anything that competes with our devotion to God.

Reflection Questions

  1. Are there areas in your life where distractions or idols compete with your devotion to God?
  2. How does knowing God as El Kana encourage you to prioritize your relationship with Him?

Prayer

Lord, thank You for being El Kana, the jealous God who desires my whole heart. Teach me to remove anything that takes my focus off You and to live a life of undivided devotion. Help Kneel Ministries inspire others to prioritize You above all else. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

Marriage: The Role of Sacrificial Love

Marriage is one of the most profound illustrations of Christ’s relationship with the church. Ephesians 5:25 challenges husbands to love their wives with the same sacrificial love that Jesus demonstrated. This love isn’t based on feelings or convenience. It’s a daily choice to put your spouse’s needs above your own.

Sacrificial love means serving, forgiving, and persevering, even when it’s hard. It reflects Christ’s love, which is selfless and unconditional. For wives, this means honoring and respecting their husbands, as Ephesians 5:33 instructs. Together, this creates a beautiful partnership that glorifies God.

In my own journey, I’ve learned that this kind of love requires humility and grace. It’s not about being perfect, but about striving to reflect Christ in our actions and attitudes. When we love sacrificially, we strengthen our marriages and create a foundation that can withstand life’s challenges.

Reflection Questions

  1. How can you practice sacrificial love in your marriage or relationships?
  2. What does it look like to reflect Christ’s love in your daily interactions with your spouse?

Prayer

Lord, thank You for Your example of sacrificial love. Teach me to love selflessly and to reflect Your grace in my marriage. Help me to serve, honor, and cherish my spouse, trusting You to strengthen our bond. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

Marriage: A Covenant, Not a Contract

In today’s world, marriage is often seen as a contract. An agreement that can be broken if one or both parties aren’t satisfied. But the Bible describes marriage as a covenant, a sacred bond between a man, a woman, and God. Ecclesiastes 4:12 illustrates this beautifully: a cord of three strands, with God at the center, is strong and unbreakable.

Marriage is designed to reflect God’s relationship with His people. It’s a commitment to love, serve, and sacrifice for one another, even when it’s difficult. In my own life, I’ve learned that a covenant requires intentionality. It’s not about keeping score or waiting for the other person to meet our needs; it’s about choosing love every day and relying on God’s grace to strengthen the bond.

When we view marriage as a covenant, it transforms how we approach it. It’s no longer about what we can get but what we can give. And with God at the center, our marriages can become a testimony of His love and faithfulness.

Reflection Questions

  1. How can you view your marriage (or future marriage) as a covenant rather than a contract?
  2. What steps can you take to keep God at the center of your relationship?

Prayer

Lord, thank You for the gift of marriage and for Your covenant with us. Teach me to approach relationships with love, humility, and commitment. Help me to keep You at the center, relying on Your grace to strengthen my bond with my spouse. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

Abigail: A Peacemaker in the Face of Danger

Abigail’s story in 1 Samuel 25 is a powerful example of wisdom, humility, and courage. She was married to Nabal, a wealthy but foolish man who insulted David and his men. David, enraged by the insult, prepared to attack Nabal’s household. But Abigail, hearing of the danger, acted quickly to bring peace.

Abigail gathered provisions and humbly approached David, pleading for him to spare her household. Her wisdom and discernment not only prevented bloodshed but also earned David’s admiration. She reminded him of God’s justice and encouraged him to leave vengeance in God’s hands.

Abigail’s actions show the power of humility and peacemaking. She didn’t let fear or pride stop her from doing what was right. Instead, she acted boldly to protect her household and honor God. Her story reminds us that even in the most challenging situations, we can choose peace and trust in God’s sovereignty.

Reflection Questions

  1. How can you act as a peacemaker in your relationships or community?
  2. What does Abigail’s story teach you about humility and wisdom in the face of conflict?

Prayer

Lord, thank You for the example of Abigail and her courage to bring peace in a time of danger. Teach me to act with wisdom and humility, trusting You to guide my steps. Help me to be a peacemaker in my relationships, reflecting Your love and grace. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

Abigail: Wisdom and Courage in the Face of Conflict

Abigail’s story is one of wisdom, courage, and peacemaking. Married to a foolish and reckless man named Nabal, Abigail stepped in to prevent disaster when Nabal’s actions angered David and his men.

With humility and discernment, Abigail brought gifts and spoke words of peace to David, convincing him to turn away from vengeance. Her wisdom not only saved her household but also honored God by preventing bloodshed.

Abigail’s actions remind us of the power of wisdom and courage in the face of conflict. She chose to act with grace and humility, trusting God to guide her steps. Her story encourages us to seek peace, use our words wisely, and rely on God’s wisdom when faced with difficult situations.

Reflection Questions

  1. How can you act with wisdom and courage in the face of conflict?
  2. What steps can you take to become a peacemaker in your relationships and community?

Prayer

Lord, thank You for the example of Abigail, who acted with wisdom and courage to bring peace. Teach me to seek Your guidance in moments of conflict and to reflect Your love and grace in my words and actions. Help me to be a peacemaker, honoring You in all I do. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

Resilience in the Face of Brokenness

Resilience isn’t something you know you have until life forces you to use it. For me, resilience became a necessity after my marriage ended. I didn’t feel strong or capable, but every day, I had to choose to get up, keep moving, and trust that God would meet me in my weakness.

Paul’s words in 2 Corinthians 4:8-9 remind me that resilience doesn’t come from our own strength, it comes from God. Being hard-pressed, perplexed, and struck down are real experiences, but because of Christ, we are not crushed, abandoned, or destroyed.

Resilience doesn’t mean pretending everything is okay. It means acknowledging the pain and choosing to trust God through it. It’s in the moments when I wanted to quit that I learned to lean on Him the most.

One of the hardest parts of resilience is letting God use your brokenness for His glory. There were times I questioned whether anything good could come from my situation, but now, I see how He’s used it to strengthen me, deepen my faith, and encourage others.

If you’re facing a season of brokenness, know this: You don’t have to be strong on your own. God’s power is made perfect in your weakness, and His grace will sustain you.

Prayer

Heavenly Father, thank You for being my strength when I feel weak. Teach me to trust You through the hard times and to rely on Your grace each day. Help me to see how You’re working, even in the brokenness. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

Moses’ 40-Day Fast – Drawing Near to God

Moses’ 40-day fast on Mount Sinai is one of the most extraordinary examples of fasting in Scripture. Without food or water, Moses spent this time in God’s presence, receiving the Ten Commandments and interceding for the Israelites.

This fast teaches us about the power of intimacy with God. Moses wasn’t focused on his physical needs… he was consumed by God’s glory and purpose. His fast was a response to God’s call, a time of divine revelation and deep spiritual connection.

Moses’ experience reminds us that fasting isn’t about deprivation but about devotion. When we set aside physical needs to seek God, we open ourselves to His voice and align our hearts with His will.

Reflection Questions

  1. How can fasting help you draw closer to God and hear His voice more clearly?
  2. What purpose or calling might God want to reveal to you through fasting?

Prayer

Lord, thank You for the example of Moses and his willingness to fast and seek Your presence. Teach me to approach fasting with the same devotion, trusting that You will reveal Your will and draw me closer to You. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

The Marriage Covenant and God’s Faithfulness

The marriage covenant is a reflection of God’s faithfulness. Just as He keeps His promises to His people, we are called to keep our promises to our spouses. This covenantal relationship reminds us of God’s unwavering love and commitment, even when we fall short.

When we model God’s faithfulness in our marriages, we glorify Him and show the world the beauty of His design. This doesn’t mean there won’t be struggles or failures. It means choosing to persevere, to forgive, and to love unconditionally, just as God does for us.

I’ve seen how marriages can flourish when both spouses rely on God’s faithfulness to sustain them. By keeping Him at the center, you’re reminded that the covenant isn’t just between two people, it’s a partnership with Him. Let God’s faithfulness inspire you to remain steadfast in your marriage, reflecting His love in every season.

Reflection Questions

  1. How does God’s faithfulness encourage you to remain steadfast in your marriage?
  2. What steps can you take to keep God at the center of your marriage covenant?

Prayer

Lord, thank You for being a faithful and covenant-keeping God. Teach me to reflect Your faithfulness in my marriage, loving my spouse as You love me. Help us to rely on Your strength and to honor our covenant in every season. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.

Upholding the Marriage Covenant in Difficult Seasons

Every marriage faces difficult seasons. Times when communication breaks down, trust is tested, or external pressures threaten to pull you apart. In these moments, the marriage covenant becomes a lifeline, reminding you of the promises you made to each other and to God.

I’ve walked with couples who were on the brink of giving up, yet their commitment to the covenant kept them fighting for their relationship. They leaned on God’s strength, sought wise counsel, and learned to love each other through patience, forgiveness, and humility.

Difficult seasons are opportunities to grow, not just in your relationship with your spouse, but also in your faith. As you work through challenges together, you reflect God’s faithfulness and love. Upholding the covenant doesn’t mean perfection; it means choosing to stay committed, even when it’s hard.

Reflection Questions

  1. How does the marriage covenant give you strength during difficult seasons?
  2. What practical steps can you take to uphold your covenant, even when it’s challenging?

Prayer

Lord, thank You for the covenant of marriage and for Your faithfulness through every season. Teach me to love my spouse with patience, kindness, and grace, even when times are hard. Help us to rely on You and to honor our promises, growing closer to each other and to You. I give You all honor, all the glory, and all the praise. It’s in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen & Amen.